
Brazilian greetings from the other side of the globe.
Valentina
Dortmund - Leverkusen - Rio de Janeiro - Chemnitz - Sao Paulo - Flensburg - Barcelona. Home is where there is an internet connection ;-)
Couple #1: Patrícia and Cesar - brazilian relationship
A VERY Brazilian couple. Three day, two fights. At least two we actually followed live and on stage. God knows how many other misunderstandings we didn't even know about. After all, Cesar actually cleaned the kitchen after our saturday's dinner. With Anja. Only the two of them. Alone.
And then on saturday Ricardo and Cesar took a walk along the beach. Alone again. Who knows what these boys have been looking at while they were out of Patty's sight???
Couple # 2: Valentina and Ricardo - european relationship
Strictly speaking this is a mixed relationship, BUT I'm just not comfortable with the brazilian "we cling to each other and shame of you if you EVER talk to one of your friends again or spent any minute of your free time without me"-type of relationship. So we agreed on a European one. Which means he is perfectly welcome to meet his friends on sunday night to watch football and he does not interfere with my weekly movie-nights with Kimberly (my best friend in Sampa). In public we do hold hands but we do not spent hours kissing at every road crossing. And I'm sorry, but I don't see why I should make a scene every time a pretty girl walks by. Although I know this would be expected from me (ask Patricia. She did indicated some situations to me where I should have drawn some attention to myself by... say... screaming?). But only in a brazilian relationship. I prefer to take it easy.
Couple # 3: Anja and the invisible Harvey - the take-it-easy couple
Anja has the most relaxed relationship of all. Poor Celso, who did seem to have a least bit of hope when he saw her. But he just won some of her bitter sarcasm when trying to impress her with all the trips he's made to Europe and Japan and how he sometimes flys over to Rio just for lunch.
So Anja happily enjoyed herself with her invisible friend. Who by the way ALWAYS does as she demands... even better than a european relationship!?